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Breaking Others Down Doesn’t Build You Up

Posted on September 21, 2025September 21, 2025 By UPL Admin

In any community-driven organization, mental health plays a crucial role as people come together to share their time, talents, and lived experiences. That is a gift. Whether someone gives an hour, a skill, or a perspective shaped by their personal journey, it deserves to be received with gratitude.

Yet too often, instead of lifting one another up, we see people tearing others down. The idea seems to be that by criticizing or belittling someone else, we make ourselves look stronger, smarter, or more important. In reality, this doesn’t build anyone up—it erodes trust, weakens the community, and damages mental health in significant ways.


The Mental Health Impact

I know this personally. After I was targeted in yet another crypto theft and faced other identity attacks, I shared my story with the community—thinking that being open might help others. Instead, some accused me of making it up just to sell more books.

But that book wasn’t about making money. It was part of my therapy process, an essential step for my mental health. Writing gave me a way to make sense of the chaos, to heal, and to reclaim my own voice after it had been stripped away by theft and betrayal.

If you’ve ever had a passion project, you understand. It’s not about profit—it’s about purpose. It’s about pouring your heart into something that matters to you and hoping it might resonate with others.

So when people dismiss that, it cuts deeper than they realize. They aren’t just questioning a story—they’re questioning someone’s path to healing.


Everyone’s Experience Is Their Own

No two people walk the same path. The way someone interprets their journey, or chooses to give back, comes from a place we can’t fully know. Instead of judging those experiences, we should love them, learn from them, and appreciate the richness they bring to the community and to our understanding of mental health.

Communities thrive when people feel safe to share their truth. They crumble when people feel mocked for doing so.


Building the Future Together

As DigiByte 8.26 nears release, this is the perfect moment for us to reflect on what really matters. Too often, people look at crypto as a lottery ticket—waiting for the next pump or a quick payday. But that short-term thinking only feeds hype and disappointment.

The real strength of DigiByte, and any blockchain, lies in usability, integration, and adoption, much like mental health relies on support, understanding, and acceptance in a community. If we focus on building tools people can actually use—whether in payments, security, identity, or decentralized applications—we create lasting value. That’s how adoption grows. That’s how communities thrive.

The payday everyone hopes for? That will come in time. But the future is built by those who keep their eyes on the long game, not the quick win.


A Rallying Cry

If we want DigiByte—and any movement we care about—to endure, we must lift one another, not tear each other down. We must celebrate contributions big and small, similar to how nurturing mental health in our communities requires fostering positive interactions. We must respect each journey, each story, each passion project.

So let’s choose gratitude over judgment. Let’s choose adoption over hype. Let’s build something that outlasts us all.

The long game is where real value lives. And together, that’s where we’ll win.

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