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Unpacking Your Life

Exploring the crossroads of life, security, and self.

Month: May 2026

New Team, Same You – Why That’s the Real Reset

Posted on May 26, 2026April 27, 2026 By UPL Admin

New team. New environment. New expectations. People like to think that’s where the reset happens. Like you walk into a different org and somehow everything just recalibrates on its own. Yet, as much as things change, it’s always a “new team, same you” scenario. It doesn’t. You bring the same…

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Digital Freedom Isn’t a Trend. It’s a Line in the Sand

Posted on May 19, 2026April 27, 2026 By UPL Admin

There was a time when digital freedom felt like a movement. A phase. Something discussed in forums, debated on X, or championed by a handful of early adopters who saw what was coming before the rest of the world cared to look. But today, we see that Digital Freedom Isn’t…

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Building Again: Why Starting Over Is a Power Move

Posted on May 12, 2026April 27, 2026 By UPL Admin

Starting over has a way of exposing you. But what if you looked at it differently, and recognized why starting over is a power move? You go from being the person with answers to the one asking questions again. From moving fast with confidence to slowing down just to understand…

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Finding Resilience: A Personal Journey

Posted on May 8, 2026May 8, 2026 By UPL Admin

In May of 2025, Brandi and I were in Fiji celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Twenty five years has a way of making you look at life differently. You start thinking less about noise and more about direction. Less about titles and more about peace. Less about what something used…

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Indirect Power: The People We Let Control Us Without Permission

Posted on May 5, 2026April 27, 2026 By UPL Admin

It doesn’t happen loudly. No announcement. No agreement. No moment where you consciously hand over control. It happens quietly, over time. A comment here. A reaction there. A look, a tone, a shift in energy. This is the effect of Indirect Power and the people we let control us without…

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ex-Microsoft. There is life on the other side...

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ex-Microsoft. There is life on the other side...

Live your best life every day 😎

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Live your best life every day 😎

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This weekend was a quick trip to our place in Arkansas. I needed to replace some shingles on the roof. I burned my butt through the jeans. Brandi arranged it so I had enough time to replace the exhaust on my 996 on Monday night.

For some reason this trip she took lots of pictures of me. Weird.

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This weekend was a quick trip to our place in Arkansas. I needed to replace some shingles on the roof. I burned my butt through the jeans. Brandi arranged it so I had enough time to replace the exhaust on my 996 on Monday night. 

For some reason this trip she took lots of pictures of me. Weird.

To end our trip last Saturday we had drinks at the Golden Gai, then dinner at The Mayfair Supper Club. A fitting end to a very special weekend with my very special lady. Happy Birthday Brandi.

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To end our trip last Saturday we had drinks at the Golden Gai, then dinner at The Mayfair Supper Club. A fitting end to a very special weekend with my very special lady. Happy Birthday Brandi.

Happy Birthday to my lovely wife @brandioakes. Fun fact we have been married for 26 years and together for 30. Thanks for being my person, and thank you for always being supportive regardless of how crazy the idea ends up being. Love you 😎

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Happy Birthday to my lovely wife @brandioakes. Fun fact we have been married for 26 years and together for 30. Thanks for being my person, and thank you for always being supportive regardless of how crazy the idea ends up being. Love you 😎

Saturday morning at the track. New personal best. Arte Mesuem. Spending time with @brandioakes priceless.

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Saturday morning at the track. New personal best. Arte Mesuem. Spending time with @brandioakes priceless.

Friday evening dinner at Giada... Excellent food and service. White people in a driving shopping cart. Absinthe. Great show. Not for everyone.

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Friday evening dinner at Giada... Excellent food and service. White people in a driving shopping cart. Absinthe. Great show. Not for everyone.
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